One calm place for the schedule, the messages, the money and the paperwork — with an AI that helps soften tense messages before they're sent, tamper-evident records if you ever need them, and support in 14 languages.
Tone-check suggestion
“Could we swap Friday? I can do the school run on Monday instead.”
Same request, softer wording — sent only when you're happy with it.
More than a parenting app
ChildApart isn't just a shared calendar and an inbox. It's the one place where every arrangement, message, cost, document and decision lives together — organised, time-stamped and safely stored, so nothing slips through the cracks and nothing gets lost in a thread six months from now.
The schedule, the handovers, the receipts, the parenting plan, the court order, the quiet note you made after a difficult call — all of it held in one calm, private record that's there when you need it and out of the way when you don't.
What it does
Everything is designed around one idea: fewer moments where a small misunderstanding turns into a bad week.
Shared contact scheduling with templates for week-on/week-off and bespoke patterns, plus rules for school holidays, birthdays and festive dates — so handovers are agreed once, not argued twice.
Secure in-app messaging with a gentle AI tone-check. Before a tense message is sent, it quietly suggests a kinder way to say the same thing — the point that matters, without the heat.
Log school shoes, clubs and kit in your own currency, attach a receipt, split it the way your arrangement says, and see clearly what has been reimbursed and what hasn't.
A private document vault for your parenting plan, court orders, passports and medical letters — always to hand when you need them, and never lost in a message thread.
Tamper-evident message records, a decision log and a private journal only you can see. Export a clear Excel or PDF record for your lawyer or mediator in a couple of taps.
A view-only portal lets your lawyer see what they need without joining the conversation. Less back-and-forth, fewer billable hours spent piecing together a timeline.
Give a grandparent, childminder or new partner a view-only companion account so they always know the right handover time and place — without giving them the keys to every conversation, cost or note.
How it works
You don't need a perfect relationship with your co-parent for this to work. You just need one shared source of truth that neither of you has to argue about.
Available in 14 languages, so each parent can read and write in the language they think in — and grandparents can follow along too.
Add your children, pick a schedule template or build your own, and upload your parenting plan. Ten minutes, once.
They join with their own private login. Nobody sees your journal, and nobody needs to swap phone numbers.
Handovers, holidays, costs and questions all happen in one calm place — with a record building quietly in the background.
Privacy & safety
Your data is encrypted in transit and at rest, and handled in line with data protection law. You can export or delete it whenever you choose.
Your journal, notes and personal documents are visible to you alone. Sharing anything is always a deliberate choice.
Messages and decisions are time-stamped and tamper-evident, so the history stays trustworthy months or years later.
ChildApart is a practical tool, not legal advice. For decisions about your arrangement, speak to your lawyer or a family mediator — and bring your records with you.
Join parents using ChildApart to take the sting out of the logistics. Set up in minutes, and invite your co-parent whenever you're ready.
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