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Features

Everything in one calm place

ChildApart is a complete life-admin and record-keeping system for separated families: every arrangement, message, cost, document and decision kept organised and safely stored.

Shared calendar and contact scheduling

Templates for week-on/week-off and bespoke patterns, rules for school holidays, birthdays and festive dates, and handover reminders so arrangements are agreed once rather than argued twice.

Messaging with an AI tone-check

Secure in-app messaging with a gentle Communication Coach that can suggest kinder wording before a tense message is sent. It is optional and under your control — nothing is rewritten or sent automatically. No phone numbers are shared, and the thread is time-stamped as it is created.

Expenses and reimbursement

Log school shoes, clubs and kit in your own currency, attach a receipt, split it the way your arrangement says, and see clearly what has been reimbursed and what hasn't.

Document vault

Keep parenting plans, court orders, passports and medical letters in one private vault — shared deliberately or kept to yourself, and never lost in a message thread.

Records and factual exports

Message records and a decision log that are time-stamped when created, plus a private journal only you can see. Excel and PDF exports give you clearly formatted factual records to use with your lawyer, mediator or court documents — an export can show a record hasn't been altered since it was created, which is not the same as certifying what happened.

Lawyer view-only portal

Your lawyer can see what they need without joining the conversation. You choose what is shared, and you can revoke access at any time.

Companion accounts

Give a grandparent, childminder or new partner view-only access to the details that affect them — handover times and places — without the keys to every conversation, cost or note.

Available in 14 languages

English, French, Spanish, Mandarin Chinese, German, Italian, Urdu, Punjabi (Gurmukhi), Polish, Romanian, Portuguese, Arabic, Bengali and Gujarati.

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